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The reckonings : essays / Lacy M. Johnson.
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New York : Scribner, [2018]
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xi, 319 pages ; 22 cm
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This extraordinary, timely new collection of essays by the award-winning writer of The Other Side --rooted in her own experience with sexual assault--pursues questions of justice, sexual violence, and retribution.

In 2014, Lacy Johnson was giving a reading from The Other Side, her "instant classic" ( Kirkus Reviews ) memoir of kidnapping and rape, when a woman asked her what she would like to happen to her rapist. This collection, a meditative extension of that answer, draws from philosophy, art, literature, mythology, anthropology, film, and other fields, as well as Johnson's personal experience, to consider how our ideas about justice might be expanded beyond vengeance and retribution to include acts of compassion, patience, mercy, and grace.

From "Speak Truth to Power," about the condition of not being believed about rape and assault; to "Goliath," about the concept of evil; to "Girlhood in a Semi-Barbarous Age," about the sacred feminine, "ideal woman," and feminist art, Johnson creates masterful, elaborate, gorgeously written essays that speak incisively about our current era. She grapples with justice and retribution, truth and fairness, and sexual assault and workplace harassment, as well as the broadest societal wrongs: the BP Oil Spill, government malfeasance, police killings. The Reckonings is a powerful and necessary work, ambitious in its scope, which strikes at the heart of our national conversation about the justness of society.


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Publisher's Weekly Review

Johnson's heart is in the right place with this wide-ranging collection of essays on suffering and inequality in 21st-century America, but her vision needs more substance. Johnson (The Other Side) begins by answering the question often posed to her about the boyfriend who raped and tried to kill her: what would she like to have happen to him? What she wishes, she says, is not revenge but for him to admit his crimes and "then to spend the rest of his life in service to others' joy." From there, Johnson launches into a series of meditations on sexual violence, her work with children with cancer, white privilege, the Deepwater Horizon spill, nuclear waste from WWII buried in a suburb of St. Louis, Mo. , the flooding of Houston during Hurricane Harvey, and Trump's presidential victory. While one might agree that many of the situations she describes are disturbing (though conservatives may object to her election commentary), Johnson veers too often into preachiness ("Whatever kinds of ideas you have about people who come from wherever you are not from, stop holding on to them"). Commendably, she emphasizes humane ideals-peace, community, grace, joy-as a foundation on which to build a better world. However, by the book's end, one wonders what she has to say that hasn't been said before. (Oct.) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.


Library Journal Review

Award-winning author Johnson presents a series of essays that can serve as both an accompaniment and a stand-alone from her best-selling work The Other Side, a memoir depicting her recovery after being kidnapped and sexually assaulted by an ex-boyfriend. Johnson excels at providing critical analysis of social justice and uses a variety of works, including mythology and film, to make the case for forging ahead with mercy and compassion. Her unflinching honesty and continuous quest for answers are woven throughout each essay, forming a thread that will have readers questioning their own beliefs. VERDICT This beautifully written book packs a powerful punch. Those with a penchant for stories concerning individual rebirth in the aftermath of a traumatic event will flock toward Johnson's latest.-Mattie Cook, Flat River Community Lib., MI © Copyright 2018. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.


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Excerpts

The Reckonings THE RECKONINGS Usually it is a woman who asks the question--always the same question. She is sitting near the door in the last row of the auditorium, having spent the last hour listening to me talk about what it means to have once been kidnapped and raped by a man I loved, a man with whom I lived, a man who even before the kidnapping had already violated me in every way you might imagine possible, especially if you were a man like him. Someone else in the audience asks what happened to the man, and I explain how he got away, how he is a fugitive living in Venezuela, raising a new family. This is not the ending anyone expects. Now the woman has a question. She raises her hand, and when I call on her, always last, she stands and speaks in a clear, assertive voice: "What do you want to have happen to him, to the man who did this to you?" By "this" I know she means not only the actual crime the man committed but also all of the therapy, the nightmares and panic attacks, the prescribed medication and self-medication, the healing and self-harm. "I mean, you probably want him dead, right?" No, I think. "No," I say out loud. Her expression crumples; she looks confused. Everyone in the audience looks confused. This isn't supposed to be how the story ends; it's not the ending they want for themselves, for me. The women at the book club don't want this ending either. They are sitting around a long oak dining table in the home of our gracious host, who brings food out in many courses, during each of which the wine flows freely. They ask questions, mostly bookish ones, but eventually the conversation turns to the man I lived with, to how he got away. "I'd kill him for you," one says. "I'd kill him on the spot," says another. They carry guns in their purses, they have told me. Maybe they are angry enough to use them. One brings up a story she heard earlier in the day: a local man has been convicted of a boy's murder. The boy was seven when the local man raped him; he turned eight on the day the local man burned him alive. The boy survived long enough to implicate the man, who was charged with capital murder after the boy died. He was tried, convicted, and sentenced to forty years in prison. "Justice has been served," one of the women in the book club says. "How is this justice?" asks another. "He's going to spend the next forty years living off our taxes." "He should be burned alive," the host says, "the same way he tried to kill that boy." She has been quiet the entire evening, in and out of the kitchen, up and down from her chair. Now she is seated at the head of the table, looking at her hands, which twist and untwist an ironed napkin over the middle of her plate. "What do you want to have happen to him?" she asks me. This woman, like every other woman who asks the question, sits with her back to the wall, like I do when I have the choice, or near the door in the last row of every auditorium. Sometimes she is my mother's age, or my age: she wears oversized sweaters, little makeup, pulls back her hair in a simple bun. She does not want attention. She has children, like I do, and like I do, she sometimes struggles to love them well. She will tell me this after I have finished answering questions, when I am sitting at a little table signing books. She has a story that is similar to mine "in ways," and she doesn't even know what to feel about it anymore. Sometimes the woman sitting near the door, or against the wall, is an old woman with crepe paper hands. Sometimes she is not a woman but a man--an old man my father's age in a ten-gallon hat, who tells me he was raped by an uncle when he was the age of my son. Or the person who asks the question is a man young enough to be my son if I had started much earlier, who tells me the question is for himself, or for his girlfriend. They both have a story like mine, he says, and they have not yet found an ending to it. I am surprised at how the people sitting near the door in the last row of the auditorium always have a story like mine. I carry these stories with me because I don't know what else to do with them. The details may differ. If it is not the story of an abusive lover, perhaps it is a mother, or a father, or an uncle; or it is the story of a friend who has been killed by a stranger while trying to do the right thing, or a woman who is shot in the back of the head while asking for help; it might be a story about the abuse of power, or authority, of the slow violence of bureaucracy, of the way some people are born immune from punishment and others spend whole lifetimes being punished in ways they did nothing to deserve. In my story, there was a man I once loved very much, and because of the self-destructive way in which I loved him, I didn't want to leave him when he abused me first with his words and then with his fists. I told myself I could fix him. That this wasn't who he was, not really. I let him keep showing me who he really was until I finally believed him and left. I had already lived a few lives by that time, I thought--a farm girl from Missouri, a door-to-door steak salesperson, a sex worker, a model in New York, a survivor of domestic violence and sexual assault--but I was afraid none of these lives had sufficiently prepared me to live the one I wanted more than anything else. I had only just begun thinking of myself as a writer around that time, but I told myself I had probably not read enough books, had not visited enough continents, was not smart enough or wise enough, didn't have anything to say, and no one would want to hear it if I did. I thought there had been a mistake in the cosmic register. Somewhere there was another Lacy Johnson who could keep straight when to use lay instead of lie, who actually belonged in all the places I began finding myself, who deserved all the good things that suddenly seemed to be happening to me. This is all to say that the worst violence that man committed was not against my body but against the story I told about the person I believed myself to be. I was twenty-one when that man kidnapped and raped me and tried, but failed, to kill me. The man got away, and I got away; he is a fugitive living in Venezuela, and I am a writer of books. The last one I wrote was about him, about the day he meant to kill me but I lived. It was not easy, not the writing and not the living--not until I often found myself standing in front of strangers telling them there is justice for me in standing here, in this room, alive and breathing and telling my story with my own voice. It is not the ending to the story anyone expects--not even the one they want, because they want a return, a redemption, a retrieval of all I had lost for my part in the story; they want suffering for him. They want blood, guts, gore. Now that would be justice, they think. My mom tells me she wants him dead. She has just read the book--even though I told her not to, even though she told me she wouldn't. She, like the woman sitting at the head of the table in the book club and like the woman sitting near the door in the last row of the auditorium, feels unsatisfied by the story I have told about my life, because it cannot be reconciled to all she has been told about how these things should end: that the man who did the terrible thing should suffer as much as I have suffered, and as much as she has suffered, if not more. In all of the movies she has seen, this is how it goes: the person who has done a terrible thing falls from a very tall building, or is incinerated in a ball of white-hot flames, or is shot in the dark by police, or at the very least is led away in handcuffs. She wants an ending like that for herself, for me. I also watch these movies on occasion, and I admit there is a certain satisfaction when Uma Thurman's Beatrix Kiddo finally kills Bill on the patio of his villa with the five-point exploding heart technique. He knows what he has done, why she has come; he does not even try to stop her. I take pleasure watching Noomi Rapace as Lisbeth Salander condemn her rapist by tattooing that word into his chest. She violates him in the same ways he violated her, and a few more for good measure. When Sophie Turner's Sansa Stark allows Ramsay's own dogs to eat him alive, she smiles a little, and there is something in me that smiles also. These men deserve this punishment, the stories tell us, and it feels good to see someone get what he deserves. I know this is spectacle, entertainment, not actual life, though life also has its share of spectacles. I would be horrified, find I often am, to see anyone actually murdered, much less tortured, out of some thirst for revenge. The spectacle reinforces over and over a story I want to believe about the world even though I have never yet witnessed it for myself: that everything will come out right in the end, that bad things eventually happen to bad people, that good people eventually receive all the blessings they deserve. Everyone gets their just desserts, the story tells me so I can go on. But what if that doesn't happen? What if, as in my story, the person who does the terrible thing more or less gets away with it? Does that mean there is no justice to be had or made or found? What does justice look like in a situation where the crime is not intimate and personal but massive and public, and there is no one person to blame? What if the wrong person is blamed? What if we punish the right person but in the course of doing so cause unnecessary pain? What if we ourselves feel pain by performing this duty of punishing person after person, day after day? How could we not? What does justice look like in these situations? Is justice even a "real" thing that any of us can achieve at all? There is a story we have each heard from birth that when someone does something bad, something bad should happen to that person in return and that this turnabout is justice. This story is a very old one, I've learned, older even than the law of an eye for an eye we find in the Old Testament, traceable back to the pre-Babylonian period, to the Code of Hammurabi, the oldest surviving record of ancient law: If a man has put out the eye of a free man, put out his eye. If he breaks the bone of a free man, break his bone. If he puts out the eye of a serf, or breaks the bone of a serf, he shall pay one mina of silver. This is the lex talionis--the law of retaliation--written more than five thousand years ago when vengeance ran amok, when a man might steal his neighbor's cow, for instance, and the neighbor would respond by murdering that neighbor's entire family. As we tell it now, the lex talionis is mandate--you must put out his eye--but the law was in fact meant to put a limit on vengeful action, to curb what humans understood to be our baser instincts. Then, as now, we want to transform our suffering: to take a pain we experience and change it into the satisfaction of causing pain for someone else. We watch Clint Eastwood as Josey Wales turn his grief into hatred in order to pick up a gun, and watch Ving Rhames as Marsellus Wallace turn his terror and near annihilation into the promise of "going medieval" on his rapists, and us as his audience into accessories to all the suffering this promise might mean. "To see another suffer is pleasant," Nietzsche writes; "to make another suffer is still more pleasant." He's thinking in particular of how tempting it is to imagine punishment as a kind of redemption for guilt--the German word shuld means both "guilt" and "debt," and one primary meaning of the word redemption was to buy that debt back--a trick of the mind that tells us that every injury has some equivalent of pain or sacrifice. There is, as Nietzsche points out, a strange accounting in this: a crime creates a debt; the criminal becomes a debtor, the victim his creditor, whose compensation is the particular pleasure of bearing witness to a cruel and exacting punishment. Is that justice? Would I cheer, and cry, and jump up and down if the man who kidnapped and raped me were kidnapped and raped, and beaten, if I could grind him down with my rage until there was almost nothing left of him? If I could watch him suffer in all the ways he made me suffer or, better yet, cause that suffering myself? The story tells me to imagine it would feel satisfying: a release of adrenaline or perhaps the relief from it. Catharsis: a cleansing. To be honest, I'm not sure what justice is supposed to feel like. There is a shut place I carry inside me. If I caused him to suffer, would that go away? I have found photographs of him on the Internet that suggest he is living with a woman who has given birth to two of his children, both girls. In the photos, he is as unhappy in his new life as he ever was in the one he lived with me. On vacation, he grows sullen because the trip isn't going his way, and when the family joins him in the ocean he frowns and looks away from the camera, afraid of being recognized, of what the photograph will reveal. The older daughter, who is the same age as my son, sits on her mother's lap, the mother who is love and safety, who makes a wall with her body between the daughter and him. Does he notice she does this? He holds the baby a little above his lap and away from his body. At a party, he dances back and forth in front of the children, and also their parents who are watching, because he has an audience, and in public he performs a version of himself who is charming, who is fun to be around, who is everything anyone ever wanted a person to be. Behind closed doors, he is angry and irritable, a man so fragile and insecure that he rages at anyone who does not reflect back the version of himself he wants to see. This is why his wife and daughters look, in the photographs, a little hollowed out inside. I can see everything he is doing to them. Everything he has already done. You probably want him dead, strangers tell me. "If we know in what way society is unbalanced, we must do what we can to add weight to the lighter scale," Simone Weil once wrote. In the years since I left that man, I have fallen in love many times, made a father out of a man I met on the Internet. I have created life, written whole worlds, outlined entire moral geographies for two barely domesticated children, and have learned to welcome the strangers who arrive at the doorstep of my soul. I've called myself a writer now more than half of my life, and during all this time, I have learned that sometimes the hardest and most important work I've done has meant turning a story I couldn't tell into one that I can--and that this practice on its own is one not only of discovery but of healing. Is justice a story about healing? Justice is blind, we are told; it is served, maybe like a severed head on a plate. It is a destination, the path to which is long and sometimes crooked and bent. The Roman emperor Nero called it justice when he threw Christians to the beasts in the Colosseum. For some, justice means sticking to the laws, or enforcing them. For others, it means helping friends and harming enemies. Aristotle observed that justice, like language, is a "special characteristic" of humans. Plato suggested that justice is "an inward grace." "Might is right" is another enduring view--might meaning violence, of course, and violence being the opposite of grace. More than anything else, what I want is a reckoning. Not only for myself, not only for him. I want it for everyone who asks the question: the woman with the crepe paper hands, the man in the ten-gallon hat, the boy who burned and his mother who must have barely lived. I want a reckoning for the woman shot in the back of the head and the man killed while running away--for the children who survive him. I want a reckoning for the person who believes he deserves to take life, and for the person who has been sentenced to offer his. I want a reckoning for all the wars politicians ask our children to fight on their behalf, and for all the children those wars fail to protect. I want a long line of reckonings. I want the truth told back to us. I want the lies laid bare. "No," I say to the woman who has asked the question from the back of the room, or from against the wall, or sitting at the head of the table. "I don't want him dead. I want him to admit all the things he did, to my face, in public, and then to spend the rest of his life in service to other people's joy." She is struck silent and leans back in her seat. This is the ending I want. I don't want him dead. I don't even want him to suffer. More pain creates more sorrow, sometimes generations of sorrow, and it amplifies injustice rather than cancels it out. I want to let go of my anger and fear and pain. I want to let go of the hatred and enmity and spite. I want that shut place to open. The ending I want is inside. Excerpted from The Reckonings: Essays by Lacy M. Johnson All rights reserved by the original copyright owners. Excerpts are provided for display purposes only and may not be reproduced, reprinted or distributed without the written permission of the publisher.