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F*cked : being sexually explorative and self-confident in a world that's screwed / Corinne Fisher & Krystyna Hutchinson.
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Fucked
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9780062666918
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First edition.
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New York : HarperOne, an imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers, 2017.

©2017
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248 pages : illustrations ; 24 cm
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Includes index.
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Summary

Summary

Are You a Dirty, Nasty Slut? Or a Sexually Repressed Nightmare?

Regardless of your background or bedroom resume, someone or something has probably made you feel that way at some point. This was what Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson discovered when they created the wildly popular Guys We Fucked: The Anti Slut-Shaming Podcast. What started as an outlet to interview--

You guessed it!--guys they'd fucked, quickly evolved into an enormous community of Fuckers around the world, and a place to share stories of kinks gone wild, trauma, assault, and the overall confusion among people who don't know what the fuck they are doing (in other words, everyone).

F*CKED brings these raw, ridiculous, and serious conversations from the podcast to the page. It is a guide to love and sex for anyone -- female, male, trans, or undecided--who is fed up with double standards and the stigma surrounding sexual beings. It is for anyone who has ever felt afraid to be their authentic self. Corinne and Krystyna won't talk down to you or coddle you because you're better than that. They won't explain why he's just not that into you, because it doesn't fucking matter. This book will teach you how to deal with shit, brush your shoulder off, and move on. You'll also learn about:

Why shame is completely made up and how we can stop giving into it Sexual exploration and how it sometimes ends in a trip to the ER Stuff we should stop doing: Snooping, nitpicking our bodies, and faking orgasms Asking your sexual partner uncomfortable questions Masturbation, threesomes, porn, sex toys, butt stuff, and much, much more

Despite what Rom-Coms and magazines tell you, you can handle sexual exploration without the assistance of a man, a glass of rose, and a Xanax. More importantly, you're fine all by yourself. This is the book Bridget Jones should've read instead of writing that shitty diary in the first place.


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Publisher's Weekly Review

Mixing dating advice with stories from their own sexcapades, comedians Fisher and Hutchinson expand on themes from their popular podcast, Guys We F*cked: The Anti-Slut-Shaming Podcast, in this unabashedly blunt guide to sex. The authors address topics such as slut shaming, three ways, and casual sex, all the while stressing the importance of communication, whether it's about kinks, getting tested for sexually transmitted diseases, or using protection. Much of their advice is based on the simple premise that "secrecy feeds shame." They counteract sexual taboos with brash humor and vulgar tales from their own personal lives, as with the story of Hutchinson's unfortunate encounter with a dildo one recent Christmas that landed her in the ER with a burst ovarian cyst. On the topic of period sex, Fisher writes, "Having sex with a chick on her period is like getting a flash pass to an orgasm," and suggests stealing a towel from the gym-it can get messy. Their more serious advice is often trite ("As long as we keep straight, single women questioning their value, men will always be the hottest commodity"), and the chapter on consent only skims the surface of an important issue for their target readership: young women. Still, their main message that women should not be ashamed of their sexuality comes across loud and clear. (Nov.) © Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved.


Table of Contents

Introduction
Quoth the Boyfriend, "Novermore"p. 3
Corinnep. 7
Krystynap. 14
This Bookp. 19
But First, a Message from Our Listenersp. 21
Shame
Why We're Fucked: A Brief Introduction to Shame and Its Shitty, Shitty Originsp. 31
Historical Rootsp. 34
Religion: Society's Guilty Non-Pleasurep. 36
Sources of Shamep. 42
Wine Me, Dine Me, Say Something About My Weightp. 52
Slut-Shamingp. 58
Fucks Given: A Lesson in Self-Lovep. 66
Feeling Femasculatedp. 71
UR So Gayp. 82
Private Parts
Vaginas: Pussies/Cooters/Love Tacos/Punani/Penis Fly Traps/Etc.p. 89
Penises: Dicks/Cocks/Bald-Headed Yogurt Slingers/Wangs/Weeners/Etc.p. 94
Nitpicking Our Bodiesp. 97
Sexual Acts
Masturbation: A Tug as Old as Timep. 103
The Art of Jerking Offp. 106
Butt Stuffp. 110
Three-Waysp. 120
Period Sexp. 128
Sending Nudesp. 130
That's a Thing?! (Yep)p. 133
Rape Fantasies Are a Thing but Should Probably Be Renamedp. 135
Having Your Cake and Fucking It Too: A Feminist Perspectivep. 138
There's a Law for Thatp. 140
Relationships
Keepin' It Cas'(ual)p. 145
One-Night Stands: When It's Good, It's Great-When It's Bad, It's Funnyp. 147
The Importance of Communicationp. 151
You [Don't] Complete Mep. 156
Thoughts on Monogamy: Or One Penis for the Rest of Your Life, Mwuah Ha, Ha, Ha!!p. 158
Relationshippingp. 162
Romance and Fartingp. 167
Sometimes Your Sexual Partner Can Cross a Boundary During Sex and It Doesn't Necessarily Mean They're a Monsterp. 171
Shit We Should Probably Stop Doing in Relationshipsp. 173
Breakupsp. 189
Safe Sex and Serious Stuff
Sex Edp. 201
Smooshmortion (Abortion)p. 205
When It Comes to Alcohol, Don't Be a Fucking Idiotp. 214
Consent: Slurred Linesp. 217
Conclusion: Final Thoughtsp. 231
Abortion and Sexual Assault Resourcesp. 235
Acknowledgmentsp. 238
Indexp. 242